change

our perceptions can change with a little push, a little guidance, proofs and experiences. let's say it's about love. one day you might say that you're a strong believer of it-that you say it lasts forever and then one day you were proven wrong and all your hopes and dreams and expectations about love just dissipates and you start to hate and loathe at even the slightest mention of the L word. same goes to everything else. one day you might be enthusiastic about Nicholas Sparks' book but as you grow older you realize that things in real life, would never be as good or as ideal as the things written in his books. perceptions deal with human emotions too. one day you might hate this person but through some consequences or shared experiences, the both of you may end up as best friends. one day you may say "yeah i hate you, i don't want to be with you anymore and i don't want to see your face," and then WHAM! you end up with the same person again because something somewhere in the middle of time's continuum has made you realized something about that person. 

in short, nothing ever stays the same. you can be adamant about something but it can change. it can. the right buttons need the right kind of pushing as they say. something in life will happen to you that will change your ideas, your stance, your beliefs in something. well, in some cases it does not change but you know, it makes you wonder and think more about things around you and why things are happening around you they way they do. you don't need to ask God why your life is as such because He has given clues all around you. just take a closer look at things and start wondering. ok this seem out of topic but anyways, what i am trying to say here is, just be ready for any changes that may or may not occur, both outside of you or within you because changes, like death and life, is one of the certain things in life.

p.s: reflection