in an instant, your whole life changes, and there is no turning back. looking back yes but not walking towards the road you have so faithfully stepped on. it is indeed tempting though, to be able to just go through that road again, but one must never be tempted to for the longest time. one cannot be stuck forever. one has to move on, regardless of whatever issues one faces in one's heart.
getting your heart broken is part and parcel of life, you can't get away with that. it may be a result of karma or just your luck or maybe, something better's coming your way but being broken-hearted can teach you so, so many things. but believe me with all the conviction that is left within you that you'll survive. you won't feel ok now, but you will eventually. as cliche as it may sound, but it works. it does. you just have to get yourself out of the rut and live and move on.
someone better is bound to come your way. not now, but eventually. just let time do its thing you know. be patient. i know you have it in you. don't think too much. it will kill you. just live in the present. even so, think about the future a little bit, but not about who you'll end up with but more on the professional side of things. trust me, you may be feeling very unhappy now, unsatisfied, but whatever it is, things will get better. they just don't stay stagnant unless you don't do anything about it.
sit around with friends, concentrate on work, date people (if you have the access to) and just live your life in general. life doesn't stop moving when you're feeling this way so why should you stop living? life is all about learning, accepting things that you can't accept and moving on, no matter how hard it is to move on.
things will be good again, trust me. it will. life isn't always tough all the time. just breathe in, look around., think positive thoughts. you're alive. do you know how many dead people would want to take your spot right now? countless! so just put your head up high, look forward, and just take one day at a time. don't be too drastic, learn to minimize, learn to smile slowly, learn to laugh whole heartedly again.
someone will come by and make your life bright again, or, that person is already in your life. you're just too blind to see that. open your eyes, your heart, your mind, your soul to every possibility. remember, you have only one life to lead. lead it well. don't waste.
a new path has been chartered next to the old one. you should take it, and embrace every possibility along the way. who knows, it may turn out to be better than you expect? but don't count on or hope on it lest you wanna get crushed by them hopes and expectations.
make yourself happy. you deserve it, like everyone else.
p.s: motivate and motivation.
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